Rebel Angel Binding the Magic
Posts : 425 Join date : 2008-09-12 Location : A car ride away from the windy city
| Subject: Perhaps we should make an advice subfourm, cause I need it Wed Dec 03, 2008 6:58 pm | |
| Hokay, so on monday, like what was expected, scoopage flowed in like the mississippi. One piece got me and my friend speculating. So I find out from one of my ex's (K) (were civil) that his best friend (B) broke up with my good friend (A) over the break. Naturally being the person I am, I asked for details. He told me that B did it infront of his (Bs) house and told her he didn't feel the same about them anymore, etc etc etc. So I double take and I'm all," Thats the exact (word for word) thing you told me!" So telling my best friend (KS) all this she draws all these paralells: me n K lasted same amount as B n A B told A the same thing K told me in the same way. I'm like thats just a coincidece but on Tues I talk to A in the hall who tells me,"Oh he said this might just be a break, that's all" All i'm thinking is "I was told the exact same thing!" Now B n K are joined at the you know what as in like they're good friends, like twins almost. I want to remind her of what happened to me as too not get her hopes up. Would that make me a bad person? I mean B's last gf (C) told me how she knew it was ending when I was with K and we were almost identical. I'm just worried taht if I tell A she won't believe me or assuse me of being jelous or somthing. but seriously were jouniors in HS and I'm sure she'd have the sence to realize I'm trying to help!But how can I tell her this? | |
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melanie Member of the Order
Posts : 1218 Join date : 2008-06-20 Age : 32 Location : At the temple, there is a poem called "Loss." It has three words, but the poet has scratched them out. You can not read Loss, only feel it.
| Subject: Re: Perhaps we should make an advice subfourm, cause I need it Wed Dec 03, 2008 8:16 pm | |
| I'd pull her aside and just say, listen.. I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but I feel that blahblahblah and I don't want you to go through what I did. I hope I'm wrong, but I wanted to tell you so that you don't get hurt..
or something of that nature.
if she's a good friend, she'll realize you're trying to help her | |
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Rebel Angel Binding the Magic
Posts : 425 Join date : 2008-09-12 Location : A car ride away from the windy city
| Subject: Re: Perhaps we should make an advice subfourm, cause I need it Thu Dec 04, 2008 5:37 pm | |
| I see her again tomorrow, so I'ma def try that thx | |
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lunarox142 Binding the Magic
Posts : 417 Join date : 2008-09-02
| Subject: Re: Perhaps we should make an advice subfourm, cause I need it Thu Dec 04, 2008 10:25 pm | |
| I agree, and also if she doesn't listen, don't beat yourself up. You will have done what a good friend would do. | |
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Rebel Angel Binding the Magic
Posts : 425 Join date : 2008-09-12 Location : A car ride away from the windy city
| Subject: OH EM GEE! Mon Dec 29, 2008 11:28 pm | |
| so lemme slap myself in the face *slap slap* cause what do you know they got back together! during the time they were broken up she told me he took her french horn, yup stole the v card, hit a home run(don't ya love my hidden meanings?)! I think she's stupid for doing it (cause she basically just told him yup without any second thoughts at all). Ughh cannot believe her! | |
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